What is a Bespoke Ceremony?

It is a truly personal ceremony that is created with you with the help of our Bespoke Ceremony Specialists.

We have been offering Renewal of Marriage Vows ceremonies to married couples across the UK for several years and, because of our close involvement and experience, we have a highly skilled team of ceremony specialists with first hand knowledge of the best ways to make your ceremony reflect exactly what you want to say to each other.

Just as each couple is unique, so your ceremony will be unique. Arranging a Bespoke Service will ensure that you get exactly the ceremony that you want. You can decide to add your own words to the many choices we suggest, making it possible for us to create your own personal ceremony to celebrate and share with either a large or small gathering of family and friends, or with just the two of you present.

Often these ceremonies are associated with a special wedding anniversary such as a tenth, twenty-fifth etc, but the ceremony is just as appropriate for couples at any stage of marriage.

It is sometimes particularly relevant to those who have been through a difficult period and have put a strain on their relationship but wish to celebrate their renewed commitment to each other.

• The Bespoke ceremony has an increased number of choices from which to select your ceremony content

• the option to include symbolic actions

• A Verse & Music booklet is included in the pack containing over 100 additional readings and poetry selections

• the option to include your own composed words

• the option to include religious content

What happens at a bespoke Ceremony

This is entirely up to you.

Your occasion can be as simple or as elaborate as you like. We will send you a Bespoke Ceremony Pack containing a large number of choices, ideas and options. Pick out all the choices that appeal to you, add any additional wording or options of your own and we will use your choices to create a complete ceremony to meet your wishes.

Often the ceremonies include: Readings, Acknowledging your children, making your vows to each other, exchanging or rededicating rings and speeches by family and friends. There are many ways to make your ceremony a very personal, unique and meaningful event.

Can we have whatever we like in the ceremony?

Yes you can, when you receive our Bespoke Ceremony Pack, do consider all the options and choices carefully and include your own additional words if you wish. Our Bespoke Ceremony Specialist Team will contact you to ensure the ceremony is exactly as you wish.

Can we have religious references in the ceremony?

Yes, some families do include religious references and this is no problem, although if you require a fully religious ceremony, we would suggest that you contact your church or religious community.

Where can ceremonies be held?

Almost anywhere!

You can arrange your ceremony at a venue of your choice that is available for public use; a hotel or a local venue such as a community hall or hotel. You can also arrange your ceremony at home (see below).

You can hold your ceremony at home if you prefer, however, there are certain conditions that apply. Take a look at our 'Guidelines for Ceremonies at Home' policy, this will give you an idea of the sort of things we will check and you need to consider. There is an additional charge of £30 (inc vat) for this service as the Celebrant is required to visit your home for health and safety reasons.

Gifts & acessories for your Renewal of Vows Ceremony

How to get the best from your Renewal of Vows Ceremony

The ceremony has to feel right for you, and we hope that the suggestions offered in our Bespoke Renewal of Vows Ceremony pack help to generate your own ideas and thoughts. Include those suggestions that particularly appeal to you, or you may even prefer to create something completely different, to express your sentiments.

about the promises and vows you would like to make to one another, this is a wonderful opportunity to capture the essence of your relationship.

words, readings, people and even a venue that have a special meaning for you both.

the time to consider options that have special meaning to you both; the ceremony will be unique to you, reflecting your commitment to one another.

music, poetry and readings, these elements can express your sentiments beautifully and will enhance your ceremony and make it totally your own; so do take time to select the pieces that have real meaning for you both.

offering each other a special gift during the ceremony. Many couples exchange or rededicate rings, but you can also offer other gifts or tokens of your ongoing commitment.

special people in your lives to take part in your ceremony, your children, guests who were at the wedding and any friends and relatives; talk with them about the ways they would like to be involved, and also consult with our Bespoke specialist team who will be happy to offer you their help and advice.

the ceremony suit your needs and feelings, it will be fondly remembered by you and your guests.

out your invitations in good time. Renewal of Marriage Vows Ceremony Invitations are available from us here, see our Store section for details.

Who will conduct the bespoke ceremony?

This is your choice.

Delivered by a Celebrant

One of our fully trained professional Celebrants could carry out the ceremony for you according to the choices you make. They will meet with you beforehand to discuss the arrangements for the day.

'Script Only' Option

Alternatively you can purchase your Bespoke Ceremony Script from us and arrange for someone you know to conduct the ceremony for you. Occasionally, a couple chooses to lead the ceremony themselves.

Is there a certificate?

Yes, a souvenir Certificate is provided that reflects your ceremony.

Can we organise a ceremony at short notice?

You must allow 28 days for us to create a Bespoke Renewal of Marriage Vows Ceremony but our standard service is available at short notice. Contact us for details if you are short of time.

How much does it cost

'Script Only' Option

Our Bespoke Ceremony Service is available for £98 (inc vat), this cost is for supplying a Script and certificate.

Delivered by a Celebrant

If you would like one of our Celebrants to conduct your ceremony the fee is £265 (inc vat), this includes the full bespoke script and Souvenir Certificate.

There is an additional charge of £30 (inc vat) if you are holding the ceremony at your home.

Note: If you are holding the ceremony at a venue such as a hall or hotel, ask the venue for their room hire/catering fees.

Ceremony Invitations & Certificate

Renewal of Marriage Vows Ceremony Invitations & a Certificate are available, please click here to order or for more information.

Simply call us on 0845 0048 608 (calls charged at local call rate) or email us at ceremonies@civilceremonies.co.uk and we will explain the choices available and discuss arrangements.